Ashley G.
Member
QUESTION: My best friend, Jackie is a free-loader. She never has money when we go out. How can I tell her to start contributing her fair share?
Dr. Powell
Joyce A.
Member
QUESTION: How can I tell my family to stop interfering in my relationship?
Dr. Powell
GOOD ANSWER: I appreciate your love and support. Please give me the opportunity to develop and grow my relationship in the manner that is comfortable for me.
NOT A GOOD ANSWER: It’s my life, I’m not a child! Butt out and mind your own business!
Anonymous
Member
Q: I have been dating this guy but I really don’t want to see him anymore. How can I tell him without hurting his feelings?
Dr. Powell
GOOD ANSWER: Hi “guy.” I have really enjoyed spending time with you over the past few months (time period).
I have come to the realization that I do not want to continue pursuing a romantic relationship with you.
NOT A GOOD ANSWER: ghosting, not answering calls.
Jason T.
Question
Q: I feel my sister takes advantage of me by always asking me for money. How can I tell her to stop asking me for money?
Dr. Powell
GOOD ANSWER: (The next time she asks for money) Hey sister, as I have enjoyed helping you out with your finances as family does, I cannot lend you any more money as a financial decision for my life.
NOT A GOOD ANSWER: I’m done helping you with your money problems!